Into the Depths of Hell

The sex video scandal involving Dr. Hayden Kho, Jr. is going out of proportion. I am sure Dr. Hayden himself did not expect that his hobby of taking video of him and his sex partners would make him notorious to the point that his medical license is in jeopardy. He did not expect to be famous. But thanks to Dr. Vicky Belo, Dr. Hayden Kho who was once so famous is now sooooo infamous.

It was written in "Love, lies & Lipo" by Jo-ann Maglipon and Anna Pingol for the March 2009 issue of Yes! magazie that Dr. Hayden Kho, Jr. (Hayden) had numerous affair with women even while he and Dr. Vicki Belo (Vicki) were still "on". Vicki received information about these affairs through anonymous text messages, which she ignored upon assurance from Hayden. But one of Hayden's buddies was "wronged" (woman related, of course) by Hayden and sought refuge from Vicki. Vicki gave that guy the key to Hayden's condominium, and he stole Hayden's personal computer and journals to look for "evidence" of his "crime".

I cannot help but theorize that if Dr. Vicki Belo did not violate Dr. Kho's privacy by giving the enemy of his boyfriend the key to his boyfriend's apartment, Dr. Hayden Kho would not have been into this mess.

I would like to believe that videos, such as the one that made Hayden notorious, if shown between friends, have the effect of multiplying pogi or machu points among peers. Otherwise, if it is shown in public, the effect is disaster. Dr. Hayden knows about this, of course, that is why I do not believe that he was the one responsible for the publication of this videos. Neither are his sex partners in those videos. In the first place, it was apparent that they were not aware that they were being filmed.

So, who was responsible for the publication of this videos?

I can't think of anyone but the guy to whom Dr. Vicki Belo gave the key to Dr. Hayden Kho's apartment. He was the one who was wronged by Dr. Kho. So, he has all the motive.

And if you ask me who started this scandal, I would answer that it was not Hayden. Yes, he filmed his sexcapades in violation of the rights of his partners, but he did not publish them. It was Dr. Vicki Belo's grave mistake of delivering his boyfriend into the hands of his enemy that started this scandal.

A woman can transform a man to become more than what he dreams to be, just like Dr. Belo's role in the life of Dr. Kho. But if she is not careful, especially in times of grief, a woman can also deliver her man into the depths of hell, like where Dr. Hayden Kho, Jr. is now.